tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53576872177504373942024-03-13T15:09:44.626-04:00A Noble JourneyJourney with us as we follow God's plan for us with Grace and Faith. Our son died in December of 2006 at age 8 from a genetic disorder. We are trying to put the pieces of our life back together and follow God's plan for our family after this tradegy. Our journey to say "Yes" to God's plan has not been without trials but God does not claim the journey will be easy just that HE will be with us each step.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-88378781494667689272009-08-27T11:16:00.002-04:002009-08-27T11:33:46.041-04:00Right on Time<div align="center">God is never too late, nor too early, but just on time.</div><div align="center"> </div><div align="left">I have often wanted things when I wanted them. I complain/grumble that it didn't happen when I wanted it to happen. Slowly I am learning that God's time is always the RIGHT time.</div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">We have added another addition to our house, a 7 yr old boy. He is a great kid but adding another child into the mix is difficult. It takes changes on the part of every member of the family. Surprisingly, the two yr old has had the most difficulties adjusting. Three weeks later and she has settled into the new routine and accepted that she can't always keep up with Kelsey and the 7 yr old.</div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">God's timing in him coming into our house was trying to say the least as I was flying to Buffalo when he came to our house. Rich has jokingly said no more traveling as we always seem to grow our family when I am traveling. We had to trust that God's time was right as we haven't added anyone since last October.</div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">Our basement was finished the week before he came to us. This has been a great blessing as we now have a kid friendly place for play. The <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">wii</span> has seen more use in the past three weeks than in the past several months. God's timing not ours!!!</div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">School is back in session for all the kiddos and this is making our schedules a little crazy until we get a routine in place. I have faith that it will all come together as it is meant to be but in the mean time I am getting a few grey hairs.</div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">Thanks for continuing on this journey with us.</div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">Later in the week, I will share my experience at IFCC conference and Kyle's continued impact on the lives of others.<br /><br /> </div><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-91449769851561941612009-08-07T18:26:00.002-04:002009-08-07T18:47:02.361-04:00Return to Reality<div align="center"><span style="color:#3366ff;">God does not lead His children around hardship, but leads <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">them straight</span> through hardship. But He leads! And amidst <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">the hardship</span>, He is nearer to them than ever before.</span></div><br />We have spent most of the summer on vacation. We traveled to Tampa, Florida then to Seattle, <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">WA</span> followed by glorious days in Hawaii before heading back to Seattle for a few day then back to Grove City.<br /><br />I loved every minute of our travels but there is nothing quite like returning to your OWN bed. I missed my bed so much. I know the babies were excited to be home. Little dude <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">squealed</span> when he saw his crib.<br /><br />God blessed us with well behaved babies on the plane rides. They flew 12 times in three and a half weeks. Most of the flights they spent sleeping which was fine with us.<br /><br />Hawaii was great but hard at the same time as Kyle so wanted to go to Hawaii to swim with the Sea Turtles. Our hotel on the Big Island was on a reef so Sea Turtles surrounded the hotel. It was magical to walk out of the hotel and see the sea turtles close to shore. The other highlight of the big Island was our trip to the volcano. Watching the lava flow into the Pacific was incredible. It was amazing how close we were to the lava flow.<br /><br />The babies are doing well. <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Tay</span> is catching up quickly with her speech and her two year old personality comes shining through each and every day. She is starting to play with toys which has been a long time coming. She has started potty training and does well as long as we remind her to go sit on the potty. Little Dude is still struggling. He is now over 13 months and he is still not crawling, pulling up or cruising. He is able to get himself into a sitting position 3 out of 4 times but it takes him a long time and it is hard for him. He is improving with his feeding issues but has surgery scheduled next Friday for his tied tongue. He will be starting speech therapy as he is struggling with making sounds. His personality is second to none and he is starting to develop a little temper. His smiles light up a room and he is so easy going.<br /><br />Kelsey will be in Honors English next year at <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Oak Stone</span>. We are so proud of her. She has completed the two required summer projects. Her report card was almost perfect and she has made lots of new friends. She is looking forward to start of the school year.<br /><br />Rich started back to work this week. It is always hard when he returns to work as I miss having him around the house. I only have a few weeks before I start back. We are trying to enjoy the last few weeks before school year chaos starts.<br /><br />I will not go as long between posts, I promise.<br /><br /><br /><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-54930769474966950712009-06-10T20:32:00.002-04:002009-06-10T20:56:11.337-04:00Catching Up<div align="center">If one first gives himself to the Lord, all other giving is easy. </div><div align="center"><br /> </div><div align="left">I found this quote and I love it. When I stop and live by this life is so much easier. I have struggling lately with a crazy schedule. I keep telling myself that I need to slow down and just relax and enjoy life. When I get really quiet and reflect on God's will, I see that giving my time to volunteer work is giving to God. Volunteering and being Foster Parents is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">GOD's</span> will for us. What I need to do is better organize my schedule and use my down time to spend quality time with my family.</div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">I find it so much easier to give of my time and talents than to give of my treasures. This is an area I am trying to work on. I know that <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">every time</span> I have given my time or talent GOD has provided for us and everything has gotten done. I need to turn over our finances and give more to help those in need.</div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">Summer is in full swing here at the Noble's. Kelsey's report card came the other day and she earned all A's and one B+. She was disappointed that she did not receive straight A's. The best news was that Kelsey was accepted into Honors English. We are so proud of her. She is really coming into her own at <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Oakstone</span>. Kelsey had her first two check out dives today and did GREAT. She has her last dive tomorrow then she is certified. I am so proud of her. She and her dad are two fish in the water. </div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">The babies are doing well. The littlest dude is in therapy several hours a week. Progress is slow but it is coming. His smile and sunny personality light up the room. He loves to experience new things and shows no fear. His sister on the other hand is showing anxiety when separated from us. Her speech has really come along and she is putting together several words. When she is in comfortable surroundings she is happy and has the best laugh. We are truly blessed to help them along their life journey.</div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">School is almost over for Rich. We are counting down the days until we leave for <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Oley</span> and then on to Hawaii. We are looking forward to sharing these experiences with the babies.<br /></div><div align="left">We continue to miss Kyle each and everyday. We feel his presence when we are feeling really down. We count our blessings that we have so many memories and pictures to look upon when we are sad. We appreciate the people that continue to share Kyle stories with us or just let us know that they thought about him. His life was short but he left a lasting impression on many lives.</div><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-51724953120569423072009-05-25T17:45:00.002-04:002009-05-25T17:55:57.897-04:00Memorial Day<div align="center">Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.</div><div align="center">Proverbs 3:5-6, New International Version<br /></div><div align="left">Today we spent time at the cemetery cleaning it up and redecorating. It is times like today that are so hard. Instead of redecorating his <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">foot stone</span> and plot we should have him here with us to cook out and relax. </div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">Today, I am thankful for all the days I had with Kyle. While I wish we had many more days with him, I know the days we had were the best they could be. Kyle made sure we had fun each day and took time to enjoy the small things in life. </div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">His smile will forever be etched in my memory. His laughter still rolls around my ears and when I hear our special songs I can feel him giving me a "big squeeze" as he called it.</div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">I love the above verse on days when I am sad. It reminds me where my focus should be.</div><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-40409048690736756862009-05-24T15:26:00.002-04:002009-05-24T15:41:26.105-04:00<div align="center">Christ is not valued at all unless He is valued above all. -- St. Augustine of Hippo </div><br /><br />So much has been going on so it has been hard to find time to blog.<br /><img class="gl_spell" alt="Check Spelling" src="http://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif" border="0" /><br />Yesterday, we celebrated our foster daughter's 2<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">nd</span> Birthday. She had a great time. Thanks to the friends and family that helped us celebrate this milestone with her. She is really coming into her own. Her speech is really coming along and she is putting several words together and doing the typical toddler jabbering.<br /><br />The little dude is sitting up on his own now and can sit for longer periods of time. He started physical therapy and will be attending for quite a while. The PT states that he has a long way to go before we get him crawling or walking. I can't wait for the day that he can get himself into and out of a sitting position. It is hard to believe he will be one in less than a month. He starts feeding therapy next week to help with his eating skills.<br /><br />Kelsey is wrapping up her freshman year. I still struggle with the idea that I have a high school student. She is thriving at her new school and looks forward to seeing her friends each day. Her academic skills continue to improve but most importantly her social skills are getting better.<br /><br />My mom was here for a visit. I had a great time visiting with her. The worst part about when she comes for a visit is that she has to leave. The babies love her and she is so good with them. Little dude has her eating out of his hands. I think it is his killer smile.<br /><br />The school year is coming to an end for me and Rich. I am looking forward to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Oley</span> this year and then our trip to Hawaii. We spent time planning our trip while mom was here. I can't wait to swim with the sea turtles and spend some quiet time with my hubby.<br /><br />My <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">achilles</span> continues to refuse to heal-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">ok</span> I am sure my non compliance has something to do with it. I need a <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">chauffeur</span> and nanny in order to be completely compliant. We are looking into an experimental treatment for my <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">achilles</span>. I am praying that we find out before our trip. The pain is such that I am not sure how much I will enjoy the trip if I don't get it fixed.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-49478133875191989062009-05-05T17:15:00.004-04:002009-05-05T17:22:47.367-04:00Uncle Doug<div align="center"><span style="color:#333399;">"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted"-- Jesus Christ on the Mount, Matthew 5:4</span></div><br />Quick update: Yesterday Rich's older borther Doug passed away at home very unexpectedly. We are all in shock.<br /><br />Please pray for Rich and his family as they go through the painful process of burying the second of four brothers. It does not seem right that Kyle is in Heaven with two of his four uncles.<br /><br />I will post more later.<br /><br /><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-71592080771779340612009-05-03T16:52:00.003-04:002009-05-03T17:14:33.189-04:00Busy Weekend<div align="center"> <span style="color:#66ff99;">Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservations. </span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#66ff99;"> -- Elton <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Trueblood</span></span></div><span style="color:#66ff99;"></span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">Friday was one of those days when I let other people make me crazy. I try not to let that happen but sometimes no matter how hard I pray, I just can't stop myself.</span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;"></span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">I am truly blessed that in those times, I have Richard. I called him and poured my heart out as I drove to the Y to work out my stress. By the time I finished my session, he let me know that he would meet me and we would drive together to finish the rest of the day tasks.</span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;"></span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">Something that small is all it took for me to feel better-OK so I lied- I also had to vent for about 10 minutes before I was completely better but just his presence made it better.</span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;"></span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">My heart broke to think about <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">all</span> the people who do not have someone to support them through the good times and the bad. I found myself being less angry and praying for those people without any to support them.</span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;"></span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">Praying for other's and not dwelling on the small things that go wrong in my life, is what I am sure God wanted me to remember. </span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;"></span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">Kelsey had her dance on Friday. Rich and I chaperoned her dance. We were good and watched from the balcony. Kelsey has some great friends. It was good to see her interacting with her peers in such a positive way. </span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;"></span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">It is hard to believe that my baby girl will be 15 on Saturday. The time seems to have flown by. I remember fondly the days I could dress her the way I wanted and put <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">hair bows</span> on her. Now I am thankful if I somewhat approve of her outfit. <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Hair bows</span> are out of the question and I am lucky if she doesn't put it in a ponytail-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">lol</span>. I know it will only be a short time before we are pulling her out of the bathroom after an hour or two.</span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;"></span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">Saturday, I went to Mitzi's grandmother shower. I had a good time as it has been a long time since I went to a baby shower. I must admit I was out of my league. All the other moms were swim moms. Let's just say that swim moms are a truly different breed. Not necessarily in a bad way but they have different priorities and lifestyles.</span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;"></span><br /><span style="color:#3333ff;">This week is very busy. The littlest baby has 2 appointments, his sister has one appointment, Kelsey has an <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">IEP</span> meeting and summer swim season starts, and then we have several family appointments.<br /><br /></span><br /><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-86168941787191700152009-04-29T15:26:00.002-04:002009-04-29T15:38:00.365-04:00Quiet Week<div align="center"><span style="color:#3333ff;">Intercessory prayer might be defined as loving our neighbor on our knees. </span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#3333ff;"> -- Charles Brent<br /></span></div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left"><span style="color:#009900;">Things are quiet here at the Noble house. I really like quiet. After all the heartbreaking week with Conrad last week, we are ready for some peace and quiet.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#009900;"></span> </div><div align="left"><span style="color:#009900;">Tomorrow the littlest baby has his PT evaluation and begins his PT. This has been a long time coming since October when he came to live with us. I must say he has made huge strides the past several weeks with his gross motor skills. He is able to sit up for a few seconds on his own. He is also able to roll from his back to his stomach finally but he is unable to get his arm out from under him. I am so thankful for the progress he is making. I hope by getting into therapy we can speed up his progress.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#009900;"></span> </div><div align="left"><span style="color:#009900;">Next week he has his GI appointment to see what is going on his multiple issues. I am hoping we can figure this out and make him more comfortable.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#009900;"></span> </div><div align="left"><span style="color:#009900;">Things are coming together with his care which makes me happy. It has been a long road but well worth it.</span></div><div align="left"><br /><span style="color:#009900;">Please keep my friend Dona and her husband Kevin in your prayers. They welcomed their third and final baby into the world yesterday. I can't wait to see her later tonight. </span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#009900;"></span> </div><div align="left"><span style="color:#009900;">In the next post I will share the incredible thing the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Childwatch</span> at our Y did for our family. God is always truly at work in our lives every day.</span></div><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-46734745581099903982009-04-26T16:58:00.003-04:002009-04-27T19:36:04.450-04:00<div align="center"><span style="color:#33ccff;">"Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole." </span></div><span style="color:#33ccff;"></span><br /><span style="color:#33cc00;">Kyle and Conrad were reunited on Thursday afternoon. I am sure Kyle was there to great Conrad and the two were off. I wonder if Conrad knew what to think of Kyle with legs, no tubes and endless energy things Conrad never witnessed her on earth.<br /><br />I am sure Conrad shook off his amazement when he realized he was running and jumping without pain which he had not done in a long time. I am glad the dymanic duo are back together but still a little jealous that Conrad is the first to be reunited with Kyle.<br /><br />Conrad's death this week has made everything else that has happened this week to be covered in clouds. We moved through the week like we were in a fog. I am sure which was worse waiting for Conrad's demise or his actual passing. Both sucked but each came iwth its own suffering and mental baggage.<br /><br />The house is quiet without Conrad and Cale, Kelsey's dog, seems lost. She keeps wandering the house looking for Conrad.<br /><br />This week brings Kelsey's first school dance. I am not sure if Rich and I are ready for this. When did our baby girl become old enough to attend a dance. Rich and I are chaperoning the dance which Kelsey is none to pleased with but they did not have enough chaperone's and we figure it was a great way to meet some of the other parents. It never occurred to us that this would allow us to attend her first dance-lol!!!!<br /><br />Today we went out a bought a skirt for the dance. The theme is Hawaiian and we found the perfect skirt but after a lot of drama and trips to the dressing room we did not find a shirt.<br /><br />Enter wonderful Cousin Theresa. She is going to take Kelsey shopping on Wednesday for a shirt and shoes. She has even volunteered to come over Friday night and do Kelsey's hair. I truly appreciate that as I am barely able to make my hair presentable. I am sure Theresa will have Kelsey looking like the beautiful girl she is inside.<br /><br />I will take pictures and post over the weekend. That is if I can get Kelsey to let me take pictures of her. She is going through a phase where she doesn't want her picture taken.<br /><br /><br /></span><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-6004827581449154302009-04-22T21:09:00.003-04:002009-04-22T21:22:23.083-04:00Conrad<div align="center"><br /><span style="color:#33cc00;">Trust the past to God's mercy, the present to God's love and the future to God's providence. -- St. Augustine of Hippo</span></div><p><span style="color:#33cc00;"></span> </p><p align="left"><span style="color:#33cc00;"><span style="color:#3366ff;">Sad news in the Noble household. Kyle's service dog Conrad is very ill.</span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#33cc00;"><span style="color:#3366ff;">For those of you who may not remember Conrad has been sick for over a year. Conrad became very ill on Kyle's one year angelversary. He started to have seizures and spiked a high fever. He was rushed to an emergency vet clinic. Conrad survived but was diagnosed with a rare disease-primary parathyroidism. In other words, Conrad suffers from low calcium levels which causes seizures. Conrad received IV calcium for a while and then was weaned to oral meds. As a result of the seizures and high fever his kidneys took a hit. Conrad started on IV fluids about 6 months ago. He had been doing well</span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#33cc00;"><span style="color:#3366ff;">Conrad went into acute renal failure this past week while we were on vacation. In true Conrad and Kyle fashion, Conrad's labs look much worse than he did for a few days. Unfortunately, Conrad is unable to keep any food down and he is in pain. </span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#33cc00;"><span style="color:#3366ff;">We brought him home and he climbed up on the bed and snuggled with Kyle's "Beary". After that brief period of being perky, Conrad has started throwing up again and does not move unless coaxed. We have scheduled an appointment with the vet tomorrow evening to have him put to sleep.</span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#33cc00;"><span style="color:#3366ff;">It kills us to do this but we do not want to see him suffer. Conrad was Kyle's constant companion and best friend. Conrad was content to lie with Kyle for hours snuggling him and entertaining him. After Kyle passed away, Conrad went through a depression as his purpose in life was no longer around.</span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#33cc00;"><span style="color:#3366ff;">I know that Kyle will be thrilled to have Conrad with him. I am a little jealous that Conrad is the first to be reunited with Kyle. Losing Conrad is like losing another piece of Kyle. </span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#33cc00;"><span style="color:#3366ff;">Please keep us in your prayers as we say goodbye to Kyle's best companion.</span></p><div align="left"></span><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></div>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-15057002813549579292009-04-16T21:45:00.002-04:002009-04-16T22:00:27.575-04:00Vacation Fun<div align="center"><span style="color:#33cc00;">The world says, The more you take, the more you have. Christ says, the more you give, the more you are.</span></div><div align="center"> </div><br />We continue to have a wonderful time here in Hilton Head. Life here runs at a much slower tempo. It has been nice to be on vacation and not have to get up early and run from one amusement park to the next.<br /><br />Tuesday we rented a pontoon boat and went dolphin watching. I posted pictures on F<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">acebook</span>. The 9 month old loved it and promptly fell asleep for the entire 2 hour trip. The 22 month old on the other hand did not like it. She sat on my lap most of the trip. She was able to relax and enjoy the ride once we saw the dolphins. By the end of the trip she was sitting on her own but when we asked if she wanted to go on another boat ride she said "no, thanks".<br /><br />Wednesday we spent the day in Charleston. Kelsey LOVED the carriage ride. The 9 month old once again liked the movement and slept through the entire thing. The 22 month old enjoyed the carriage ride a lot more than the boat trip. She kept calling the horse "<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">doggie</span>" which made everyone laugh. Rich and I enjoyed all the history we learned. After the carriage ride we spent a few hours walking around. The weather was perfect and the kids happy.<br /><br />Today, Rich and Kelsey went deep sea fishing. Unfortunately for them they did not catch anything and neither did anyone else on the boat. The babies and I spent the morning shopping. I came to the realization that I am too old to go shopping with a 22 month old and 9 month old on my own. You should never go shopping when the kids out number the adults. I was able to buy a few things between having the 22 month old take off her shoes without me knowing, thankfully, I found them in the first store I checked, and the 9 month old having a poop explosion.<br /><br />Later in the day we caught up with Kelsey and Richard for lunch and more shopping. We cut our shopping excursion short so Kelsey could get back to the hotel to hang out with her new friends. We have not seen much of her in the evening. She spends the day <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">texting</span> with her friends planning what they are doing in the evening. When did she become such a teenager?<br /><br />We are sad that our vacation is quickly coming to an end. While I will miss the wonderful weather and slow paced days, I will be happy to be in my own bed and amongst family and friends.<br /><br />Please pray for all our friends that are still waiting on organs. Remember to sign up to become an organ donor. Also, please donate blood.<br /><br /><br /><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-35852972674009319532009-04-13T19:43:00.002-04:002009-04-13T19:58:14.484-04:00Easter<div align="center"><span style="color:#33cc00;">Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it by the handle of anxiety, or by the handle of faith. ~Author Unknown</span></div><br />We had a wonderful Easter here in Hilton Head. We arrived in Hilton Head on Saturday afternoon. The weather was wonderful and we walked along the beach and had dinner on the beach listening to a band. The 22 month old had fun dancing to the music. 9 month old was not impressed and promptly fell asleep.<br /><br />Sunday we attended Mass at the Catholic Church down the street. The church has <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">soo</span> many visitors that they offer a Mass every 15 minutes in various locations on the church grows over 4 hours. The service we attended was packed. We had to separate to find seats. The 22 month old and I sat together and were next to a family from Akron and in front of us a family from Warren. Same Ohio world.<br /><br />After Mass we came back to the condo and the 22 month old participated in the Egg Hunt at the property. She had a great time and got lots of candy. A nice gentleman gave the 9 month old several eggs as he slept <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">thru</span> the egg hunt.<br /><br />After naps, we headed out for an early dinner and shopping. We discovered the 22 month old LOVES prime rib. She ate at least half of mine. She also loved the strawberry dessert. At least we know she has good taste.<br /><br />We spent several hours windowing shopping. I have seen <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">soo</span> many turtle things, it is unreal. I only bought a sea turtle eye glass case for Kelsey. I am waiting to make the rounds to all the stores before I decide on the t-shirts and knickknacks for me.<br /><br />Today was rainy and we hung out. Kelsey and I took a water aerobic <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">classs</span> before the rain moved in. I was afraid the class would be full of old ladies but I was the second oldest in the class. The other three people were easily in their twenties. I am not sure when I changed from being one of the youngest to one of the oldest.<br /><br />Tomorrow we are going to rent a pontoon boat and go look for dolphins. Kelsey is excited about this and I am sure the babies will enjoy it also.<br /><br />Wednesday we are spending the day in Charleston. Kelsey has always wanted to take horse drawn carriage ride. She does not know but we have arranged a private carriage ride that will last several hours and take us through most of old Charleston. I am sure we will have a great time.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-43518407346247971312009-04-08T11:02:00.002-04:002009-04-08T11:21:29.701-04:00Discerning God's Will<div align="center"><span style="color:#3333ff;">We can only learn to know ourselves and do what we can - namely, surrender our will and fulfill God's will in us. </span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#3333ff;"></span> </div><br />Another busy week for our Noble Adventure. It is hard to believe it is Wednesday already and that we are leaving for Hilton Head in 48 hours. Will we be ready?<br /><br />Of course we will be ready or at least as ready as we ever are. The good news is that we aren't going to a foreign country so if we forget anything we can easily find a Target or <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Wal</span>-Mart. I am glad I have finally come to this place in my life that I don't pressure myself into thinking I have to remember everything and that if I don't the world will end. Unfortunately, it took me 40 plus years to figure that out.<br /><br />A cross roads has come upon in this journey. We need to make a decision and that is not always easy for us. We are trying to be quiet while trying to pack and get ready for a week long vacation and discern God's voice.<br /><br />A good friend has helped me start processing all the information. I admit it, I tend to make decisions based on emotion. I have a hard time separating my emotions from the facts. My friend was great at breaking it down to black and white.<br /><br />Her most <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">inuitive</span> advice was have you had any signs? She believes as do we that GOD will lead us where he wants us to go we just need to be still and listen. I tend to want MY way and ignore the doubts or the LOUD voice of God.<br /><br />When we got the call about Kyle, we KNEW that he was OURS and meant to be ours. We are not feeling that this time. There isn't that sense of peace yet how do we say "NO'" to a child in need of a home especially a child with medical issues who will have a hard time finding a home.<br /><br />This same friend said "Maybe you are a stop along his journey and NOT his final destination". Maybe by talking about him if he is not meant to be ours we will help him find his TRUE home. If you know anyone who is interested in adopting a child with medical issues let me know.<br /><br />Please pray that we are able to truly discern God's will.<br /><br /><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-88640306634131140692009-04-05T21:42:00.002-04:002009-04-05T21:58:36.301-04:00Unexpected Blessings<div align="center">Faith makes it possible, not easy.</div><br /><br />Rich and I are attended the Nationwide Children's Hospital Volunteer recognition brunch yesterday. This was the first year we attended but we were asked to go as we were selected as Volunteer's of the Month for September. We were truly honored by the award. The hospital has done so much for our family. They cared and ministered to not only Kyle but our entire family. We can never repay them for all the did to us.<br /><br />We were truly <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">suprised</span> and humbled when we found out we were selected as Volunteer's of the Year. I couldn't help but cry as Lindsay read the nomination letter out loud. We feel honored to help out other families. The fact that we can be there for another family that is why we do it. The hospital staff is great but there is a different type of comfort and hope that comes from talking to a family that has been there.<br /><br />It is often said that it is better to give than receive and when it comes to volunteering at <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">NCH</span> that is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">definately</span> true. We get back far more than we give.<br /><br />Immediately after the brunch we headed to the Leave A Mark Easter Egg hunt. For those that might not remember, LAM is the church that Pastor Steve of Biker Sunday started. Pastor Steve has a special place in our heart. Grandma Noble was kind enough to take the kiddos over and we joined her after the brunch.<br /><br />God was showering blessings on our family, as the 22 month old found the golden egg and won a bike. When we got there she was on stage with Kelsey getting her picture taken with her new bike. I must say that she was just as happy with the candy in the other eggs and the chance to decorate Easter cookies.<br /><br />We were able to spend a few minutes with Pastor Steve. He truly is a remarkable man. The hunt included a special section for children with special needs. Oh how Kyle would have loved to participate in an egg hunt.<br /><br />On the illness front, the 9 month old is feeling much better. He was diagnosed with Influenza type A on Monday. All that lingers is his cough. The 22 month old now has a cough and runny nose which she so kindly passed along to me. We are praying that Kelsey and Rich are spared and that all of us are healthy by the end of the week.<br /><br />Friday we head to Hilton Head. We are slowly trying to pack for the trip. I have the babies packed and Kelsey is mostly done. My goal is to pack for myself tomorrow.<br /><br /><br /><br /><p><img class="right" alt="post signature" src="http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/jennisajoy/BLOG%20DESIGN/ONCEUPONABLOG/donnasigcopy.png" /></p>Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-69250475121227005122009-03-29T19:21:00.002-04:002009-03-29T19:42:55.191-04:00What an end to the week. Sick babies. Not fun.<br /><br />They both started with a cough and runny nose on Thursday. The 22 month old just stayed with a runny nose and cough. The 9<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">th</span> month old decided that was not enough. He started throwing up his formula Thursday evening. Saturday we decided to take him to the Urgent Care as he was still throwing up and spiked a fever.<br /><br />We had our quickest urgent care visit ever. We were in and out with him in less than an hour and a half and that included x-rays. It turns out that he has an ear infection and a virus that has settled in his chest. Motrin, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">abx</span> and instructions we were on our way out the door.<br /><br />The little man is still not feeling that great. He just had his first bottle in 3 days that he has not thrown up. I am praying that he has turned the corner. I feel so bad for him. He starts coughing and the pain makes him cry. It turns into a vicious cycle that we have not been able to break.<br /><br />We did get good news as our prayers were answered. We got permission from the babies <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">birthmother</span> to take them to Hilton Head with us. We are so thankful that we are going to be able to show them the beach and the sand. God has been so good to us in answering our prayers to take our foster kids on vacation with us.<br /><br />Today marks 27 months since our sweet boy flew to heaven. We miss him everyday. His absence leaves a mark on everything we do. We still feel his presence everyday. Our God has been faithful in helping us through this horrible experience. We have had times since Kyle died that we have felt like GOD was not with us and terrible things have happened. Those have been very low times but GOD has proven over and over again that HE is at work in everything. Those situations have been resolved and opened new opportunities. I love how GOD takes the worse things that happen to us and have good come out of them. The devil must get tired of not being able to take advantage of the negative before GOD steps in to save the day!!!!<br /><br />Please pray for all our friends that are awaiting transplant especially Brody and Matisse. Please pray for all those that are struggling. Pray for those considering abortion. Pray for those who do evil when they believe they are following God but are really being led by the devil.<br /><br />A new look is coming soon to this blog!!!! I can't wait to share it with you.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-6915360440125232282009-03-25T14:17:00.002-04:002009-03-25T14:29:04.421-04:00First Day without KelseyKelsey is off at her first at back in a brick and mortar school aka not an online school. It has been a rough day emotionally. The house has not been this quiet since the months immediately following Kyle's death. Those days Rich was at work and Kelsey was in public school. The house does not seem "right" without lots of noise and chaos.<br /><br />The babies are home but they are in hour three of their naps. They always go done for 2-4 hours and Kelsey and I usually enjoy our girl time together. We laugh at Little House on the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Praire</span> and What Not to Wear. Today without her here watching with me they have lost their magic.<br /><br />I can't wait to see if Kelsey enjoyed her day at school. I pray that this school is the right fit for her. I know that she will benefit from the more structured learning environment and the social skill training they have through out the day.<br /><br />Day One without her went amazing well from a logistically standpoint. I was able to work for about half and hour before the babies were up. I had everything ready for them and they were clothed and fed within thirty minutes. With full bellies and dry bottoms they played for almost 3 hours while I worked with only minimal interventions needed. They both had lunch and were in bed napping by noon. Not bad!!!!!<br /><br />I am sure not all days are going to go this smoothly but I am grateful for this smooth transition day. Tomorrow will be different as I am driving Kelsey to school and then the babies have a visit.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-16300665164304519842009-03-22T21:58:00.002-04:002009-03-22T22:17:39.741-04:00The week flew by. My work week was not the typical week. Last week was Ohio Graduation Testing week. Everyday last week I was administering the OGT for several hours. Not a big deal except that I had to have the kiddos at grandma's on the other side of town then back to close to home to administer the test then back to grandma's house. 3 hours worth of actual testing turned into 5 hours with all the traveling.<br /><br />I am grateful that we have grandma and cousin Teresa to watch the kiddos. I don't worry about them when they are with family. The kids love playing at grandma's because she has cookies and toys that we don't have. The grass is definitely greener at grandma's.<br /><br />Kelsey has finished her Freshman year at TDA and starts at Oakstone on Wednesday. I am so proud of her to have finished her Freshman year. She worked very hard and her grades were GREAT. I hope that she enjoys Oakstone. This will either be the perfect fit for her or it will be a disaster.<br /><br />I pray that it is a perfect fit. The great news is that if it doesn't work out she can return to TDA in the Fall. She is excited to start Spanish. She wanted to take Latin but it is not offered. Kelsey is looking forward to swimming in the Oakstone pool and the volunteering opportunities they provide on Fridays.<br /><br />We are halfway through the Lenten Season. To celebrate this mark we watched some really powerful movies this weekend. First, we watched The Boy is the Striped Pajamas. There was not a dry eye in the room. The ending was not what I expected. A very powerful movie with a great message. The second movie we watched was an older movie called The Scarlet and Black. It was another movie that takes place during WWII. It tells the story of Monsinoer that helps many POWs, and others escape from the Nazi's. Another powerful movie. Kelsey liked this movie so much that she has watched it again already.<br /><br />Friday we went to the Fish Fry at church then we headed over to Stations of the Cross. Even though the kiddos had been fed and had dry diapers, they were not very quiet. We learned that Stations of the Cross is not the place for small children. Rich, Kelsey and I were still able to appreciate the Stations.<br /><br />This week my goal is to attend at least one weekday Mass. Last week I was not able to attend the Parish Mission like I wanted. Hopefully, this week will be a little more quiet.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-79589927998073856362009-03-14T15:46:00.002-04:002009-03-14T15:59:47.514-04:00Slow LearnerI must admit that in some areas I am a very slow learner....<br /><br />I always think that I can accomplish everything that I plan or set out to do. I have a hard time saying "no" when people ask me.<br /><br />In the past two weeks, I have managed to say "no" twice. This may not seem like a big deal but for me it is. I told a friend I could not help her with a project because I needed to finish some things for my job. In the past I would have helped her and then been up late trying to catch up which would cause me to be very stressed.<br /><br />I also skipped a meeting because I had some tasks my boss needed done by a certain time. I could have made the meeting and run around like a crazy women all afternoon to get everything done. That would have caused me to be stressed too the max.<br /><br />It is a huge accomplishment for me to slow down. I know how fast kids grow up and change. If I spend so much time running around I am going to miss what is important. Kelsey is 15 and it seems to have gone by in a blink of an eye. I appreciate that she still likes to climb into my bed and watch a movie with me just like when she was little. I wonder how much longer she will want to do that.<br /><br />This weekend Kelsey is gone to LifeTeen camp. The house is quiet without her. Rich and I are taking advantage for this time to clean out Kelsey's room and put the queen size bed into her room. She will be so excited to have the big bed in her room.<br /><br />Rich is working in the basement cleaning it out. I made the mistake of going done there. He was sorting through Kyle's stuff. It was too much and I started crying. I still can't look at the stuff that was in his room when he passed away without crying.<br /><br />Why can I look at pictures and not be sad but seeing his stuff makes me cry?!!!!!!!!!!!Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-83297074674333766142009-03-08T19:15:00.003-04:002009-03-08T19:26:23.000-04:00Head Banger ChurchYesterday was Life Teen Mass or as Kyle called it Head Banger Church. The Mass is geared towards teenagers and a band plays the songs. The songs are not the typical songs we hear at church they are the songs played on our favorite Christain station 104.9 The River. This is why Kyle called it Head Banger Church.<br /><br />Every time I go to a Life Teen Mass, I cry. I still picture Kyle getting into the music with a silly smile on his face. The Life Teen Services were his favorite.<br /><br />Today the priest talked about how if you follow Christ two things will happen for sure. First, you will be called to go places you don't want. He used the example that Jesus had to go to the Cross even though he asked not to have this happen in the Garden of Gestheme. As Jesus put it though "Your will be done not mine".<br /><br />As followers of Christ we have gone where we have not wanted to go. We have been to worst fear of every parent-watching their child die. We did not want to go there and asked if it could be otherwise. As Father Joe said if Christ took stock in polls then Kyle would still be here as we voted for him to stay. I am not sure there is a worse place to have to go and if I am lucky I will not find out.<br /><br />The second thing the priest said will happen for sure is when you are called to the place you don't want to go God will be there for you. This we know for sure as I am not sure how we faced Kyle's impending death with the grace and love we did. I also know we would not have been able to accept Kyle's death without God's grace and love.<br /><br />That does not mean that we like it. We still wish with all our hearts that God's plan would have been different but it wasn't. Even though we were forced into this place, we know that God was with us the entire time and is still with us.<br /><br />Our prayer as a family is that we continue to see God's hand in all that happens to us and that we can embrace his plan.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-37289837378559562742009-03-04T22:01:00.002-05:002009-03-04T22:11:16.223-05:00Carwash traumaKelsey talked me into a <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">carwash</span> today while we were filling up the van.<br /><br />She opted for the super deluxe wash-does that surprise me NO. Anyways we drive into the bay and put the car in park like it said. The <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">prewash</span> starts and then ends. Nothing happens and Kelsey and I figured the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">prewash</span> had to sit for a minute.<br /><br />We listened to Bring the Rain on the radio then song ends and the next song comes and goes and still nothing.<br /><br />I am starting to get a little worried. I ask Kelsey to climb out of the car and run to Speedway office and let them know what was happening. She was afraid that the machine would start and she would be hurt.<br /><br />I decide to try pulling forward as I was now late for my doctor's appointment. Bad choice as that closed the bay door that was open in front of us. The door behind had been closed the entire time.<br /><br />Thankfully there was a phone number listed on the wall and the babies were sleeping. I called and after what seemed like forever the nice lady activated the cameras to see what was happened. It was a computer malfunction. I had to back the out in my big old van.<br /><br />Such fun for the Noble's. I have never heard of anyone ever getting stuck in the car wash.<br /><br />As we pulled away from the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">car wash</span>, Praise You in the Storm came on. Kelsey's reply was "thanks Kyle for the drama. You always had a wicked sense of humor".<br /><br />I made it to my appoint late but they saw me. I had another <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">steroid</span> shot this time guided by an ultrasound to get deep into the tendon. Hopefully, this will work. I can not work out at all for 5 days and then I am back to a modified program.<br /><br />When I asked what that means, my doctor <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">funny</span> guy that he is said "if it hurts don't do it, if you think I would say no then don't do it and if you like it and it gives you an endorphin high then don't do it".<br /><br />Gotta love the guy. I guess he knows me well after only 2 visits.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-5285402078354130922009-03-02T17:14:00.006-05:002009-03-02T17:25:24.774-05:00ChangesKelsey had an interview at Oakstone Academy on Friday. It looks like she will be attending school there soon if everything works out. Kelsey finished her freshman science class today. She has now completed freshman english and science. She is close to finishing her american<br />studies class. She still has a way to go in algebra. Can you tell which class she likes the least?<br /><br />We are hopeful Oakstone will work for her. She is happy at TDA but I worry about her social skills as they are not getting any better. At Oakstone they will work on that with her. She will finish up the year there to see if it is a good fit. By the time she starts she will have finished all of her freshman credits so she won't be behind if this does not work out.<br /><br />Please pray that this is the best thing for her. It will be an adjustment for all of us. I have gotten use to her being home during the day. She is a big help with the babies.<br /><br />Today while I was searching for a family picture I ran into some pictures of Kyle. These pictures were of the minutes preceding Kyle's death and pictures of us holding him after he died.I felt like I was stabbed in the heart and stomach. The tears came and I couldn't stop them. I had to run to the bathroom. I HATE those pictures. He looked soo BAD and I will be honest, I block out those pictures in my mind because they are NOT who Kyle WAS.<br /><br />My boy was a happy go lucky kid with a smile on his face, a laugh coming out of his mouth and mischievous look in his eye. That is how I choose to remember him.<br />I don't know if there will ever come a day when I can look at those photos and not lose it. They say time heals all pain so maybe some day I will be able to look at those pictures and not cry......<br /><br />Another action packed week here at our house. We are working on what we are going to do with Kyle's funds for the pain clinic. Rich and I are excited to be close to doing something with all the wonderful donations from everyone. We never got Kyle his pain free day but we will help other kids get the relief they deserve.<br /><br />I am off to dinner with my college friends. I need to ask one of my friends for a favor. Our foster babies were tested and both quailfy for Help Me Grow services but the wait is 6 months. My friend teaches at the MRDD building that the 21 month would go to. Teh 21 month old quailified in both cognitive function and communication. I am hopeful that she will be able to get us in sooner. 6 months is a long time for these kids. The 8 month old needs PT and that I can get a script from his doctor for. I am hopeful he can start in the next 3 -4 weeks.<br /><br />Please pray that we can get them the services they need as soon as possible. They are such a blessing to our family.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-7971020623654216272009-02-23T10:45:00.004-05:002009-02-23T10:52:28.585-05:00Getting Old without PermissionBoy, I have discovered the past week why God's plan is the way it is for having children. In God's plan most people have their children in their 20's and 30's. The reason you have children then is because you have boundless energy and your body is in great shape.<br /><br />I don't remember being tired when Kelsey and Kyle were baby. Even though I did not get lots of sleep it did not seem to bother me too much. Now that I am in my 40's, I can't say that anymore.<br /><br />Rich and I never had 2 babies in diapers. Kelsey was 4 1/2 when Kyle was born so she was way past the diaper stage. Now we have 2 kiddos in diapers and we are getting old. The 8 month old is cutting 3-4 teeth at the same time which makes for a grumpy baby that is not sleeping. I am feeling the lack of sleep.<br /><br />I am not complaining just aware that my body is aging without my permission. Most people call me the energizer bunny but these kiddos are showing me that my batteries are slowing down and need more recharging.<br /><br />I choose to look at it that they are keeping me young.... without them I am sure I would be much slower and less active.<br /><br />Lent begins this week. We are looking forward to Lent bringing us closer to God and strengthens our Faith walk.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-57007590450886456882009-02-20T21:30:00.004-05:002009-02-20T21:40:08.397-05:00Their Name in The Sand<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtkaLE03mJ-odqA_EJPQmkGWUaO-w6eQ_vo1A5ohbPUpcan1cpu2iEFG3RO-1UghRrO5hxpinRtoYMNUwOn1_89Iu6bAOWkZwnfPoQcPwfsK74R9Qkt6QcCUYvqeUbPwCFHUJMuMV7TH-H/s1600-h/Kyle.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5305072492480152002" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtkaLE03mJ-odqA_EJPQmkGWUaO-w6eQ_vo1A5ohbPUpcan1cpu2iEFG3RO-1UghRrO5hxpinRtoYMNUwOn1_89Iu6bAOWkZwnfPoQcPwfsK74R9Qkt6QcCUYvqeUbPwCFHUJMuMV7TH-H/s320/Kyle.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br />This amazing tribute to <a href="http://namesinthesand.blogspot.com/2009/02/kyle-richard-noble.html">Kyle</a> was created by Their Name in The Sand<br /><a href="http://namesinthesand.blogspot.com/2009/01/make-name-request.html">To Write Their Name in the Sand</a> . The first link will take you to the page created for Kyle. On this page you can leave a message for Kyle. The second link will take you directly to the page to request a name made in the sand.<br /><br />When I found this website I could not resist this way to honor Kyle's memory as he loved playing in the sand.<br /><br />Please share this website with any family that is grieving the loss of a child.<br /><br />Several of Kyle's friends have been an extra blessing lately. Kyle's good friend Derick called me the day before Valentine's and read me a story about a mommy sea turtle. He said the book reminded me of Kyle. I had tears in my eyes as I listened to the story. It is so hard for me to believe that Kyle's friends are old enough to read.<br /><br />Kyle's first girlfriend Jaci blessed me this week with a pair of sea turtle earrings. She bought them in Florida while she was on her Make A Wish trip because they made her think of Kyle. I am truly blessed that Kyle's friends continue to think of us and Kyle.<br /><br />This coming week we are meeting with the Pain Team at NCH to discuss how best to use the donations made in Kyle's memory. I will keep you posted on what we decide.<br /><br />Thanks for stopping by.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-4564133094699229792009-02-14T20:28:00.003-05:002009-02-14T20:39:28.750-05:00Valentine's Day<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjenJV4U38dAkiIj7uhQ3H9zUDHvEsKoizcjTLzvNXn9mXKTPbu2OGi5uCMtu6LgOSNYDgTzb1g5j8ZvcYClMJ47DdDkLXprAEh1cGcQtwYA3xODJCA5hyphenhyphen8Bd_lHNVFhpxRGpuA6QoK56x-/s1600-h/Kyletubeman.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjenJV4U38dAkiIj7uhQ3H9zUDHvEsKoizcjTLzvNXn9mXKTPbu2OGi5uCMtu6LgOSNYDgTzb1g5j8ZvcYClMJ47DdDkLXprAEh1cGcQtwYA3xODJCA5hyphenhyphen8Bd_lHNVFhpxRGpuA6QoK56x-/s320/Kyletubeman.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302832731260237218" /></a><br /><br /><br />Valentine's Day was always Kyle's favorite holiday. He enjoyed it more than Christmas or his birthday. He would spend hours writing out his valentines and decorating cookies for his favorite friends and nurses. He loved any and every chance to tell people how much he loved them.<br /><br />This being his favorite holiday has made the day hard..... we went to the cemetery and decorated his grave site. It still seems so wrong to be decorating a grave site and not his room!!!<br /><br />Kyle sent several signs today for us. My favorite was the playing of our song Praise You in This Storm. It came on the radio as we pulled into the driveway this evening. The other sign is a little too personal to share.<br /><br />Rich surprised me with a special Valentine's gift- a personalized license plate Tubeman!!!!<br />Tubeman is the name of the superhero we created for Kyle. The world's first superhero with tubes and a central line. Rich could not have picked a better gift for me.<br /><br />I am truly blessed to have such a wonderful and thoughtful husband.<br /><br />Please stop and take time to tell those closest to you how much you love them. There is never a guarantee that you will get the chance tomorrow.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5357687217750437394.post-28529167057842510632009-02-12T21:43:00.001-05:002009-02-12T21:45:06.358-05:00Rich and I have been working on patience (quit laughing) especially me. I know that I am Type A and like to think that I am in control of things. I truly do know that GOD is in charge of all things but that does not stop me from trying to exert control and doing things my way.<br /><br />We are quickly discovering that when you are foster parents you are not in control of anything. Things can quickly and without input from the foster family. You are just expected to adapt and do what they say.This is good practice for us as it helps us grow in our ability to see that we are not really in control of much.<br /><br />I need to start applying this to my physical health. I must say hitting the 40s is not fun. I injured my Achilles in November. I took December and January off from exercising per doctor recommendation. I started back in February and the pain is intense. I am now in physical therapy twice a week and it is so hard to not work out. I keep pushing myself and my heel is not healing. I am TRYING to slow down but I just can't stop working out completely even though I know I should.<br /><br />We have also learned that things work out the way they ARE meant to be whether we worry about them or try to change them.Kelsey is growing up so fast. My baby girl is now a young lady. I know in another blink she will be off to college. It only seems like yesterday she was taking her first steps and saying her first words. She has finished her freshman year of English and has begun sophomore English. She is almost finished with Physical Science and World Studies. By the end of the month she will begin Biology and American Studies. Math is another story as she does not like it. She will be finished by the end of March. That really isn't bad but.....<br /><br />The babies continue to grow and bring much joy to our life. My favorite time of the day is snuggle time before nap. I must admit the baby boy has me wrapped around his finger. He is spoiled as all babies should be. His sister is funny and makes us laugh. She also keeps us on our toes. She loves to put everything and anything in the garbage.Donna Noblehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11392790888450840210noreply@blogger.com0